Why be Silent?
Domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking, elder abuse, child abuse, the list goes on. So many topics that are considered hush-hush. Topics that are whispered about or not spoken of at all because it’s not nice conversation. Why be silent? Listen as a forensic nurse examiner talks about these things openly and learn information and resources that may save someone’s life, including your own.
Episodes

2 days ago
2 days ago
In this episode of Why be Silent, Shannon Vincent delves into the critical issue of child abuse prevention. As April marks both Sexual Assault Awareness Month and Child Abuse Prevention Month, the episode explores the various forms of child abuse, common indicators, and essential prevention methods.
Listeners will gain insight into the definition of child abuse and its long-term impacts, referred to as Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). Shannon emphasizes the importance of intervention and treatment to mitigate lifelong health consequences.
The episode also highlights alarming statistics on child abuse cases and fatalities in the U.S., shedding light on the disproportionate rates affecting different demographics. Shannon outlines risk factors and the role of economic and social stressors in exacerbating abusive situations.
Understanding grooming, identifying red flags, and differentiating between child and adult perpetrators are key focuses, equipping the audience with knowledge to act if they suspect abuse.
Finally, Shannon offers guidance on fostering open communication with children, establishing trust, and utilizing community resources to safeguard against abuse and support victims.
Child Abuse Types, Signs & Prevention
The Mama Bear Effect - Child Sexual Abuse is Preventable
Homepage Content | NCSBY
National Statistics on Child Abuse - National Children's Alliance

Saturday Apr 12, 2025
Saturday Apr 12, 2025
In this compelling episode of "Why Be Silent," host Shannon Vincent sheds light on the often overlooked issue of male victims of sexual assault, particularly those assaulted by female perpetrators. As society tends to focus predominantly on female victims, male survivors are frequently ignored or silenced, leading to underreporting and a lack of support.
Shannon discusses the significant underreporting by male victims and the societal and cultural barriers that contribute to this silence. With consent being a universal issue, the episode challenges common rape myths, highlights the importance of believing all survivors irrespective of gender, and calls for equal treatment and resources for male victims.
By addressing male sexual assault, Shannon aims to encourage discussion, increase awareness, and advocate for a more inclusive and supportive response to all survivors. Join the conversation and support the movement to ensure no voice remains unheard.
Male Sexual Assault & Abuse Support for Men | MaleSurvivor
Sexual Assault Statistics | National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC)
Sexual Assault of Men and Boys | RAINN
Sexual victimization perpetrated by women: Federal data reveal surprising prevalence
Working with Male Survivors of Sexual Violence | National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC)

Saturday Mar 15, 2025
Saturday Mar 15, 2025
In this compelling episode of "Why Be Silent," Shannon Vincent interviews her sister, Desiree, a domestic violence survivor who bravely shares her harrowing story of abuse and resilience. The episode delves into the challenges Desiree faced during and after her abusive relationship, shedding light on the often misunderstood barriers that prevent survivors from seeking help. Despite technical issues with sound, the importance of this narrative shines through, as it provides invaluable insights into the complexities of domestic violence, the stigma surrounding it, and the resources available for those in need. Desiree's journey of survival and strength offers hope and inspiration to others who may find themselves in similar situations. Tune in to learn more about the courage it takes to overcome adversity and the critical role of support systems in the healing process.

Saturday Mar 15, 2025
Saturday Mar 15, 2025
In this episode of "Why Be Silent," host Shannon Vincent delves deeper into the multifaceted issue of domestic violence, also referred to as interpersonal or intimate partner violence. Following a previous conversation with a survivor, Shannon expands the discussion to explore the different forms of abuse, including physical, sexual, and psychological aggression, as well as stalking.
Shannon emphasizes the importance of societal involvement in prevention, intervention, and support for survivors. She outlines essential services available, particularly highlighting the role of forensic nurse examiners in documenting abuse and providing necessary medical assistance. The episode stresses the need for robust documentation to support survivors legally and illustrates the prevalence and impact of domestic violence across all demographics.
By educating listeners on the complex nature of these abusive dynamics, Shannon aims to empower individuals and communities to create safer environments, offering practical advice on understanding, identifying, and responding to domestic violence effectively. The episode is a call to action for both awareness and active participation in combating this pervasive issue.
About Intimate Partner Violence | Intimate Partner Violence Prevention | CDC
Preventing Intimate Partner Violence | Intimate Partner Violence Prevention | CDC

Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
In this episode of 'Why Be Silent,' host Shannon Vincent delves into the crucial and often misunderstood topic of human trafficking. Recorded in the aftermath of Human Trafficking Awareness Month, the episode seeks to clarify misconceptions prevalent in mainstream media and popular culture.
Listeners are guided through a comprehensive understanding of what human trafficking truly entails, including its various forms and the harsh realities faced by victims. The discussion highlights significant statistics, outlines the differing types of trafficking, and sheds light on the diverse backgrounds of both victims and perpetrators.
Throughout the episode, Shannon emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of trafficking and explores concrete steps that both professionals and community members can take to aid potential victims. Including insights from previous episodes on sexual assault exams, she consolidates the information into a guide to intervention and support.
Engage with this enlightening episode to deepen your understanding and learn how to be part of the solution in combatting human trafficking within your community.
Human Trafficking | What is Human Trafficking?
Victims/Survivors | Human Trafficking | Office for Victims of Crime
Impact - Human Trafficking Search

Friday Feb 21, 2025
Friday Feb 21, 2025
Welcome to this insightful episode of "Why Be Silent," hosted by Shannon Vincent. Joined by forensic nurse examiner Shellie Kiesler, the episode dives into the essential roles of forensic nurses in the aftermath of sexual assault. Focusing on adult protocols, Shannon and Shellie discuss national guidelines for sexual assault forensic exams, emphasizing the victim's choice and medical priorities.
The episode highlights the importance of informed consent, the nuances of collecting evidence, and the reality that forensic examinations do not determine whether a sexual assault occurred. It also addresses the logistics of evidence collection, medical care, and the availability of victim support services.
With an emphasis on patient empowerment, this episode is a vital resource for understanding the support systems available for victims and the critical role of forensic nursing in delivering compassionate and comprehensive care.
International Association of Forensic Nurses - Research.Educate.Lead
A National Protocol for Sexual Assault Medical Forensic Examinations - Adults/Adolescents Third Edition

Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
Wednesday Jan 15, 2025
In this episode of "Why Be Silent," host Shannon Vincent explores the topic of Adverse Childhood Experience Scores (ACEs) and their profound impact on our lives. Discover what ACEs are, the types of traumatic experiences they encompass, and the alarming prevalence of ACEs among adults and high school students in the U.S.
Shannon delves into the long-term health consequences of ACEs, including heart disease, depression, and chronic illnesses, highlighting the crucial role of prevention. Learn about the significant economic burden ACEs-related health issues impose on society, costing billions annually.
Prevention and intervention are key themes as Shannon discusses the importance of creating safe, stable, and nurturing environments for children, as well as the role community organizations can play. Join the conversation on promoting positive childhood experiences, supporting families, and breaking the cycle of adversity.
About Adverse Childhood Experiences | Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) | CDC
https://youtu.be/95ovIJ3dsNk
Resources:
Early Head Start
Adults and Children Together Against Violence: Parents Raising Safe Kids (ACT)
SafeCare
The Incredible Years

Monday Jan 13, 2025
Monday Jan 13, 2025
Welcome to this episode of Why be Silent with Shannon Vincent, where we delve into the complexities of the neurobiology of trauma and its profound impact on sexual assault survivors. As a forensic nurse examiner, Shannon sheds light on how trauma affects the brain, influencing victims' physical and psychological responses.
Join us as we explore key hormones like opioids, oxytocin, catecholamines, and cortisol, and their roles in the fight, flight, freeze, flop, and fawn responses. Shannon emphasizes the importance of understanding these responses to support survivors effectively.
Highlighting the vital need for trauma-informed care, Shannon discusses how professionals can create safe, supportive environments for survivors, ensuring their voices are heard and believed. This episode is a valuable resource for those seeking to deepen their understanding of trauma's impact and how best to assist those affected.
The Neurobiology of Trauma Part 1
The Neurobiology of Trauma Part 2

Saturday Jan 11, 2025
Saturday Jan 11, 2025
In the debut episode of "Why Be Silent," forensic nurse examiner Shannon Vincent courageously delves into the harsh realities of society's most taboo topics: sexual assault, domestic violence, human trafficking, elder abuse, and more. Shannon shares her journey as a forensic nurse and her mission to break the silence surrounding these issues, emphasizing the importance of spreading awareness and support for victims.
Listeners are urged to confront the uncomfortable truths surrounding these issues. Shannon provides insight into her forensic training, the challenges faced by victims, and the crucial need for community involvement to bring about change.
As Shannon discusses daunting statistics and societal misconceptions, she encourages everyone to become informed and proactive in their communities, supporting victims and working towards prevention. This episode serves as a call to action for listeners to be part of the solution, advocating for resource sharing, victim support, and ultimately, a cultural shift towards open dialogue and understanding.
References:
Sexual Assault Statistics | National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC)
https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/213503.pdf
http://www.unicef.org/protection/files/BehindClosedDoo
http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/cdc_nisvs_overview_insert_final-a.pdf
https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/https://ovc.ojp.gov/2023-report-nation/elder-abuse-financial-exploitation
https://humantraffickinghotline.org/en/statistics